Paris Hilton finds a new boyfriend: Doug Reinhardt

Paris Hilton confirms she’s no longer single:

From: Charlie N
Time: March 5, 2009, 9:02 pm

What’s that sound? It must be 3 billion male hearts simultaneously breaking! *LOL* Just kidding, but I should comment on this video. It does not appear that Paris confirmed anything, nor denied anything. All we know for sure is that dude loomed in for a kiss, but that does not “confirm” that she is no longer single.

I really do want the very best for Paris in her life, whatever that might be, and with whomever that might be, if anyone. I am here to say that unfortunately even if this relationship becomes a confirmed, committed, monogamous romantic relationship, you heard/saw it here first at this post….. sadly, Paris, it will not last.

Don’t get me wrong, I really want Paris’s heart to be as happy as possible, but it’s Paris’s personality type that prohibits her from succeeding in a relationship the same way her parents did.
She actually has given me huge insight to her personality when I heard the questions she has asked her mother regarding men and relationship. In her, I used to think Paris was perhaps a Type 3 personality but I think I was wrong, and now I see a Type 7 personality, (I am a Type 8 personality. Does anyone recognize the schematic?).

I hope she enjoys this as much as it can be enjoyed for the time it will be enjoyed, but it won’t last, and I think I know why.
I have to go buy something for dinner and head back to my hotel, but will peek in later.

From: admin
Time: March 5, 2009, 9:19 pm

I think the little French kiss with Doug in front of the camera is a physical confirmation from Paris. 😉
They’ve also been hanging out together a lot, lately.

Doug looks very much like a “Hollywood” type of guy. Kinda different than Benji. But it must be hard for Paris to find a decent boyfrient!

From: Charlie N
Time: March 5, 2009, 10:57 pm

The truth is, we can’t even tell if it was a full-on French kiss, but is there any other way to kiss a woman named Paris other than a French kiss? *LOL*

Let’s assume the kiss included a little bit of tongue wrestling going on, even so, it can IMPLY something, yes, but it does not actually confirm commitment.

I have worked as a Doorman/Bouncer, so I have a strong understanding of human interactions in club dynamics. If we are to be totally and completely honest, which of us has not indulged in a more sensual, intimate kiss with another person while we are single, without actually deciding to commit to that person in a monogamous relationship??

I saw it every night, but one thing I noticed about Paris is that she seems to conduct herself in a much more subtle way than a lot of women in similar situations. Her clues are so subtle that a lot of men would have difficulty even knowing she dropped a hint. I believe she will slowly work into it after the initial denial stage. 🙂

The problem with Paris is two-fold. As you mentioned, Benji is not as much a Hollywood type as Doug is, but the type of guy she chooses for the next several weeks or few months is really not very relevant.

Finding a decent boyfriend in Hollywood is kind of like seeking Mr or Miss Right in a nightclub, it rarely ever works out. The best you can usually hope for is Mr or Miss Right Now, even with the best of intentions, or under the influence of desperation.

Paris will *NEVER* find Mr Right in Hollywood, nor in similar industries. Such personality traits of people successful in such industries are simply not conducive. Even if she were to find guys to choose from who are more conventional on a mental and emotional level, she will still have to wrestle with the very toughest challenge….. herself.

There are some very challenging aspects of Paris’s personality when it comes to attempting to give what is required in order to establish and maintain a monogamous long-term romantic relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely *LOVE* Paris, and I don’t say this as a negative thing. It’s just an honest look at her, just as I know as a Type 8, I certainly have my own shortcomings in certain situations.

From: scot
Time: March 6, 2009, 12:03 am

Not this douche bag!

He has been jumping up the line of female ‘celebrities’
First Amanda Bynes, not really a big name. Then Lauren/Laura Conrad of the Hills and now Paris. Yet another guy Paris can add to her list of guys using her. This guy, like Perez calls him is a ‘Z-list’ actor. Purely sleeping his way to the top and get as much attention as he can. I thought Paris was getting a bit wiser with her male companions?

From: juju
Time: March 6, 2009, 1:35 am

yeah, i don’y really care who she hangs out with, but that kiss in front of th epaps was just tacky. i hope they were only kidding around. but even still, it’s only a matter of time until she’s accused of doing that to get attention becasue she’s jealous of the attentin nicole is getting by being preggers again. sigh, again, i want more album news…not this junk. shoudl blow over fairly quickly…

having fun is one thing, but i don’t see this guy as serious for her. for a good solid guy, i say look to europe for someone more mature and solid. loves the club party scene, but doesn’t need it, has their own money so they don’t need to cop hers, etc.

ISLS

From: Charlie N
Time: March 6, 2009, 1:38 am

Hi Scot, I actually have never heard of the guy, so he was right off the alphabet as far as I am concerned. If he has a history of trying to charm/boink his way to the top for fame, fortune, or whatever else he might seek, then he is very likely just using Paris as well.

That does not help an already less than ideal, complicated situation. I think part one issue partially contributing to the problem for Paris is that she is lonely and feels like she wants that same love/connection/depth that she sees her parents have. I see it countless times in women where they will see what they want to see rather than what actually is.

The best indication of future events is past behavior, in the same situational circumstances. I know a WWE Diva who had some love problems with one of the wrestlers. He dumped her for another WWE Diva, and when things got bad for them both, she went back to him. I advised her against it because the future was written in the past. I told her that if he already left you once, and then he left the one he left you for, don’t you think when he gets comfy and complacent that he is going to hesitate to leave you again for the next BBD??

She knew I was right, and I broke it to her gently, but I told her to expect it so she won’t be as hurt when the time came. Sadly I was right and she got hurt again.

Paris said she is wiser to the ways of guys using her, but that was when she did not have any hunger for that special level of intimacy that she craves. When you are hungry for something, you stop thinking with your mind and start feeling and reacting by hopes, delusions, and impulse. I think she is quick to get lonely, and I think she wants more, but she can’t have more due to certain, specific personality traits she has. That is what I meant by her being her own worst enemy (biggest challenge).

She is lonely enough to take a chance; lonely because she wants more depth. She looks at him and tries to see what she is hoping for. When she later becomes less hungry for that deeper intimacy, then instead of seeing in him what she hopes for, she will see in him what he is. She will come to see there is a huge difference in what she wants and what he has. Like I said, you heard it from me first, it will not last, I will bet the last 20 years of my life on it. Paris is wiser regarding her male companions, but she is not using what she learned because her unmet emotional needs and subconscious behavior is sabotaging her success. I know exactly where and how that poor, sweet thing is going wrong. 🙁

From: scot
Time: March 6, 2009, 5:40 am

I hadn’t actually watched the video before I commented last. I just watched it and it was trashy. Pure attention seeking stunt to get people talking. Quite honestly, any decent person would’ve waited to drive off. I just found that really tacky :/

Throughout Paris’ history whenever she is with a guy like him she always goes downhill. The only exception to this was with Benji, he wasn’t one of those guys though. It wouldn’t surprise me if this guy sets up some hidden camera and films him and Paris just to get some cash/attention.

SAVE PARIS! SAVE PARIS!

This just really frustrated me because in the recent months we’ve had Paris saying she learnt from her mistakes, she has better judgement of people and she is tired of guys/people using her. This guy obviously charmed the pants off of her and is going to destroy her. Over the past year or so she has really worked hard to change her image and slowly she has started to but utterly stupid things like that make all of her hard work instantly disappear.

C’mon Paris see the lighttt!

She’s already wasted the price of a business class ticker to Tokyo and back, plus all the other stuff she brought him there (hotel room, food, drinks etc). Arghhh.

From: Cc17
Time: March 6, 2009, 4:35 pm

us weekly claims that Paris and doug are really just a fling and its only base on sex, but I think he’s just using Paris to make his ex amanda bynes upset because she was at the same club that night too.

From: Charlie N
Time: March 6, 2009, 5:46 pm

This is a multi-faceted issue with several potential different reasons for why Paris does what she does. The first big issue is that she as a person is her brand, her business, so right away, the line between business and personal lives are grayed, if not, even merged.

In selling a brand, many people believe that no press is bad press. That might possibly be a case where Paris is just trying to keep her brand (herself) circulated in the media because it is her livelihood. In such a case, she would obviously place profit above what might be perceived as a personal stumble.

If it is a legitimate emotional/personal issue apart from Paris circulating her brand, then I would suggest that Paris yearns for more depth of character and meaning in a relationship. She cannot find that in Hollywood types, so that would be a mute point. Very few Hollywood types successful in that area are not successful in relationships due to a huge mass of money, mega resources and nothing in terms of accountability and self control.

Paris, I believe, also has a Type 7 personality, and such traits will make it very difficult for her to find the depth in the type of relationship she claims to want. She might not even know, but when she is made aware of how the traits of a 7 sabotage their success, she can plan for such pit falls.

Paris, if this is nothing to do with your brand, and if you see this, I can help you work through this and make it so you can find the relationship you say you want, versus finding the relationship types you previously had…. and the one common denominator among them all was the result.

Sadly she has the ultimate success formula for such a relationship right in front of her, but she does not follow the actions of those in that model because they are contrary to the Type 7 personality. Paris, if you want help with this, you can get my number from Paris Hilton Entertainment, and you can call anytime, and I have a great book you might find interesting to read and very beneficial.

Oh and I’m in my hotel room now, and while working on my laptop, I see Ellen. It did have an advert saying Paris Hilton will be on “the next Ellen”. They did not say which day, they just said, “On The Next Ellen”. It is Friday, so I assume Monday is when it will be on, so I’ll have my schedule worked around the Ellen show. *LOL* Try Monday to see Ellen.

From: Jen
Time: March 9, 2009, 6:57 pm

I think we can let Paris pick her own boyfriends.

If it works out, fine.
If not, she’ll drop him and move on.

From: Charlie N
Time: March 18, 2009, 12:37 pm

It won’t last, once the honeymoon phase endorphin flood has worm off, and given Paris’s personality type, I would bet the last 20 years of my life against say 20 million dollars that it won’t last.

Don’t get me wrong, I definitely want Paris to be as happy as she possibly can be. I know that this kind of depth of love and the happiness that comes with it has eluded her for her entire life.